Do you know who you are talking to?

THIS IS PART OF A TEXT IN PORTUGUESE OF MARIO SERGIO CORTELLA

Today, in quantum physics, we do not speak about the universe, but in the multiverse. The assumption that there is only one universe has no more place in physics. Science talks about multiverse and we are in one of the possible universes.

They say that 15 billion years ago, there was a large atomic explosion, which generated an incredible acceleration of matter and energy release. This feature was added forming what we humans call the stars and they came together, forming what we call galaxies. Science estimates that there are in our universe about 200 billion galaxies. One of them is our own, the Milky Way. By the way, nor is such a large galaxy; it is estimated that it has about 100 billion stars. So we are in a galaxy, which is one of 200 billion galaxies, one of the possible universes and it will disappear.

In this our galaxy full of stars, one of them is that now called dwarf star, the sun. Around this little star turn some planetary masses without own light, nine in all, maybe eight. The third of them from the sun is the Earth. What is the Earth?

The Earth is a small planet that revolves throne of a small star, which is one of 100 billion stars that make up a galaxy, which is one among other 200 billion galaxies in one of the possible universes and it will disappear. See how important we are ...

In this little place has a thing called life. Science estimates that on our planet there are over thirty million species of life, but so far only ranked around three million species. One is our: homo sapiens. Which is one of three million species already classified, who lives in a small planet that revolves throne of a little star, which is one of 100 billion stars that make up a galaxy, which is one among other 200 billion galaxies in one of the possible universes and that will disappear?

This species has, in 2007, approximately 6.4 billion people. One of them is you.

YOU are one among 6.4 billion individuals belonging to a single species, among other 3 million classified species, living in a small planet, which revolves throne of a small star, which is one of 100 billion stars that make up a galaxy which is one among other 200 billion galaxies in one of the possible universes and it will disappear...

That's why every time in life that someone asks me, "Do you know who you're talking to?," I reply, "Do you have time"?

Hunger for love

What have we seen out there ??? Ballads filled with beautiful girls, with more and more micro and transparent clothes.
With their dances and poses in gynecological close-ups, increasingly siliconized, bodies sculpted by plastic surgery, as if they went to  the supermarket and asked the court of the meat as they wanted but ... they come to the dancing alone and leave alone ...
Businessmen, lawyers, engineers, analysts, and others who have studied and studied, worked, achieved professional success and... alone ...
There are women hiring man to dance with them at dances, the brand new "personal dancer,"... amazing!
And it's not just sex!  Not at all! If it were, it would be  resolved easily. Anybody doubts? Sex is in the classifieds of newspapers for sale, on street corners, anywhere, but just sex!
We are lacking to stroll hand in hand, giving and receiving affection, without necessarily having to  show incredible performances of an Olympic athlete in bed ... gym sex. . .
We lack making dinner for who we like and then find out that we will "just" snuggle and cuddle to sleep, not worrying about the kabbalistic positions ...
You know... those simple things, we lost in this crazy march of a blind evolution.
We became machines, and we are now desperate for not knowing how to get back to "feel", only that something so simple that every day is so far from us ...
Who doubts what I'm saying, take a look at the social networking sites "g+", "facebook" and many others. Take a look at the number of communities like: "I want a love for life", "I am to marry!", "to the hopeless, "I was born to live alone!"...
Bringing thousands, I mean, millions of lonely people in a crowd of more and more strange faces, plastics, almost ethereal and inaccessible, if we look at their pictures of sometime ago, we can be sure that they are not the same people, beautiful women plasticizing and maiming themselves on the behalf of such "beauty" ...
We are have been living longer and longer, we retard aging, and realize every day women and men with dolls faces, no wrinkles, trapped smiles and increasingly alone ...
I know I sound like the unhappy bachelor, but I am not ...
To get to write this nonsense (more than true) I had to have the courage to face the ghosts of forward and accept this truth with a straight face ...
We all want to have someone by our side, but nowadays it is judged as ugly, out of fashion, corny, prejudiced families ...
Hello everyone!!! Do happiness, love, all these emotions make us look ridiculous, fool? But so what? Be ridiculous, but be happy and not  frustrated ...
Be embarressed, cry to the world and talk about how you feel, show your love!
You will find out that sooner or later the time to be happy is short, and every moment that goes away will never return ...
Note that person who passes by you on the street today, you may never see her again, or maybe that person you have never imagined but can be the love of your life... And maybe you lost the chance of smiling together ...
Who said that being an adult is to be grouchy?
You can be a businessman and eat yogurt with your finger, watch cartoon, laugh at silly and not let to be a successful professional, who loves to laugh at yourself for being clumsy ...
The wind can not undo our hair?  We have to want our wife wearing makeup for 24 hours, and she has to have the body as the "sexy" women in fashion, and also of playboy magazines? I doubt a true men want a woman like that to live by his side, to be the mother of his children... Ok we like to look sexy women, and imagine the delicious, but that's it... and smart women understand it.
I want an intelligent woman by my side. We will have good and bad times and maybe sooner or later, one of the two, or maybe both, will want to jump out, but if I do not ask her to stay with me, I'm sure I'll regret for life "...
Why to be afraid to say "I love you", "stay with me"? Do not care about the opinions of others! Be happy!
Better being a stupid for some people than being unhappy for yourself!

Arnaldo Jabor

The Creature

I know of an ancient and formidable creature,
That itself devours members and entrails,
With the eagerness of the insatiable hunger.
Dwells along the valleys and mountains;
And at sea, ripping, in the manner of the abyss,
Stretches up all in strange convulsions.
Bring printed on the forehead the dark despotism;
Each look firing, cruel and tender,
It seems an expansion of selfishness and love.
Coldly contemplates the despair and the joy,
It Likes the hummingbird, as it likes the worm,
And girds to the heart the beautiful and the monstrous.
For it, the jackal and  the rolls are equal... just defenseless;
And walks undisturbed on the earth.
In the tree busting his first bud comes the leaf, which unfolds slow and sluggish,
then the flower, then the sighed Snitch.
Because this creature is in all work:
Spays the flower breast and corrupts its fruit.
And it is in this destroying that it doubles its strength.
Loves equal the pure and the impure;
Starts and restarts a perpetual job;
And smiling obeys the Godlike status.
Do you say this is death?.... 
I will say... this is Life.

Machado de Assis

Why not?

He is a superman when we need and a cute little child when we also need...(ohhh! and I love that!) 
But now I do the biggest question of the year: why did I stop loving this guy when I met the other one? Chocolates, wine, music, dark rooms... He stops the world, sits by my side on the couch, holds my hands tight and says: 
-You do not know the longing I felt all this time...
The music becomes instrumental killing any other word, the city does not breathe, time does not exist, loneliness is something for people who live very far away, my mind quiets all monsters, pollution becomes pure oxygen and pink color, the other man who is the undeserved owner  of my hurt heart explodes in the air leaving only stars to light my start...
All the doubts of what to do for the next thousand years simplify because I wish only to live that moment... yes... yes, yesssss... 
I want to reset everything before and love this man, now and ever. 
I will do my best...
Why not?

I'll be your baby tonight
https://youtu.be/OIz7k0muF6A

Longing

I miss you ...
A good nostalgia that teaches and that shows new horizons...
That is no longer suffering and that now reveals the other side of love...
I remember the man with boyish way of talking with your soft voice that fascinated me...
Unforgettable emotions, accelerated beatings of my heart...
A feeling that for me was really true, impossible to forget...
The good times that I had no clear mind to understand...
Of everything so good that our differences destroyed and the time took away...

I miss you ...
I like to feel it. It does not hurt anymore and it is generous...
It softens your absence, calms me and calms my loneliness...
Reminds me experiences that made us grow a bit more together, and made me understand that our relationship would not and will never happen...
That my happiness was fleeting and was not here to stay...
That I shall not cultivate resentment, but just to miss you, and also cultivate the beautiful moments that love has given me...

I miss you ...
This feeling is good for me; does not cage me and does not charge me...
I do not want to forget you. I can not...
Our "relationship" was very important to me. It was a life lesson...
Our mistakes, we shall not consider them bad points...
True love never ends with rancor and intrigue...
In fact, my love for you is not over... it became another kind of happiness, of wanting, and of manifestation of love... it became... longing...

unforgettable

http://youtu.be/BT4X5biDi8E

Relationships

I think that dating, marriage and romance have a beginning, a middle and an end. Like everything in life.
I hate when I hear that conversation:
- 'Oh, I finished the dating ...
- 'Wow, how long?'
... - 'Five years ... But it did not work ... just ended'
- Did it not ...?
Of course it did! It worked for five years, that's it.
And the good thing about life is that you can have multiple loves.
I do not believe people who complement each other. I believe in people who add up.
Sometimes you can not even give one hundred percent of you for yourself, how to charge one hundred percent of the other?
And we don't have this situation entirely.
Sometimes he is true, but he is not good in bed.
Sometimes he is loving, but he is not true.
Sometimes he is helpful, but is not employed.
Sometimes he is brawny, but is not sensitive.
We can not have all....
Perceive which aspect is the most important for you and invest in it.
"Skin" is a tricky beast. When you have "skin" with 
someone , it may be the most basic position like "Dad with Mom" and ... What a delight!
And sometimes you have that acrobat sex, but that does not impress you ...
I think the kiss is very important ... and if the kiss is good... go ahead ... if not ... another drink please ... and go for a walk...
If he or she does not want you anymore, do not force the issue.
The other has the right not to want you!
Do not fight, do not call, do not get mad!
If the person is in doubt...  it's up to you to wait or not.
Some people need our absence to wish our presence...
The human being is not absolute. He hesitates, has doubts and fears but if he REALLY likes you he will come back... No drama!
It's not good to have someone by your side under blackmail, pregnancy, money, family recession...
The cool thing is someone who is by your side... for you!
And vice versa.
Do not be with someone for pity either... or fear of loneliness... we are born alone... we die alone... 
And our thought is ours, it is not shared if you don't want. And when you wake up, the first impression is always yours, your look, your thinking.
There are people who jumps from one romance to another. What fear is that of finding you in your own company? Liking hurts...
You will often have anger, jealousy, hatred, frustration. It's part...
Then you date another being, another world and another universe...
And things do not always go as you want ...
The worst thing is that people are afraid to get involved.
If you do not want to get involved, "date a plant." It is more predictable.
In life and in love, we have no guarantees.
Not every person who invites you to the movies is to marry...
Not every kiss is to romanticize...
Not every good sex is to date or  to discard... Or to fall in love... Or to blame...
Anyway ... who said that being an adult is easy?
This is FACT!

Arnaldo Jabor

The SCREAM

-I do not know what's happening to me, says the patient to the psychiatrist.
But she knows...
-I do not know if I really like my girlfriend, says one friend to another.
But he knows...
-I do not know if I want to continue with the life I have, I think quietly.
But yes I know...
We know everything we feel because something within us cries. We try to stifle this cry with foolish talk, lucubrations, esotericism, dynamic readings, virtual dating, but no matter the method that we will use to search for a truth that fits in our plans: will be fruitless. The truth is already within, the truth is imposed, speaks louder than us, it SCREAMS!!!
We know if we love someone or not, even if it is written that it is a worthless love, a love that  rejects us, a love that will not result in anything. 
We often divert this love for another love, an acceptable love, easy, serene. 
We can give all the evidence to the world that we do not love that person and that we love the other one, but we know, there inside us, who's in the control of our heart.
The truth screams. Causes fever, is in our eyes, develops ulcers. Our body is the house of truth, come from within all the information that will undergo a special screening: some truths we leave out other imprisons us. But the truth is only one: nobody doubts about himself.
We can spend years dedicating ourselves to a job knowing that it will not bring us emotional reward. 
We can live with a person even though she can not be trusted, and we know that. We do these choices because they are the most sensible or practical, but they do not always agree with the cries from within, those voices that say, go this way, if you prefer, but you were born to go to the opposite way. 
Even happiness, as propagated, may be an alternative option to that we closely desire. We fulfill all the ritual, do everything as expected, and we are happy... wow, how happy we are! 
But  the cry inside: -"you did not want that false happiness, you wanted just to live!
-I do not think I would have the courage to throw it all away...
Yes I do....
-I do not know why I'm like that.
Yes... I know....

Martha Medeiros