Relationships

I think that dating, marriage and romance have a beginning, a middle and an end. Like everything in life.
I hate when I hear that conversation:
- 'Oh, I finished the dating ...
- 'Wow, how long?'
... - 'Five years ... But it did not work ... just ended'
- Did it not ...?
Of course it did! It worked for five years, that's it.
And the good thing about life is that you can have multiple loves.
I do not believe people who complement each other. I believe in people who add up.
Sometimes you can not even give one hundred percent of you for yourself, how to charge one hundred percent of the other?
And we don't have this situation entirely.
Sometimes he is true, but he is not good in bed.
Sometimes he is loving, but he is not true.
Sometimes he is helpful, but is not employed.
Sometimes he is brawny, but is not sensitive.
We can not have all....
Perceive which aspect is the most important for you and invest in it.
"Skin" is a tricky beast. When you have "skin" with 
someone , it may be the most basic position like "Dad with Mom" and ... What a delight!
And sometimes you have that acrobat sex, but that does not impress you ...
I think the kiss is very important ... and if the kiss is good... go ahead ... if not ... another drink please ... and go for a walk...
If he or she does not want you anymore, do not force the issue.
The other has the right not to want you!
Do not fight, do not call, do not get mad!
If the person is in doubt...  it's up to you to wait or not.
Some people need our absence to wish our presence...
The human being is not absolute. He hesitates, has doubts and fears but if he REALLY likes you he will come back... No drama!
It's not good to have someone by your side under blackmail, pregnancy, money, family recession...
The cool thing is someone who is by your side... for you!
And vice versa.
Do not be with someone for pity either... or fear of loneliness... we are born alone... we die alone... 
And our thought is ours, it is not shared if you don't want. And when you wake up, the first impression is always yours, your look, your thinking.
There are people who jumps from one romance to another. What fear is that of finding you in your own company? Liking hurts...
You will often have anger, jealousy, hatred, frustration. It's part...
Then you date another being, another world and another universe...
And things do not always go as you want ...
The worst thing is that people are afraid to get involved.
If you do not want to get involved, "date a plant." It is more predictable.
In life and in love, we have no guarantees.
Not every person who invites you to the movies is to marry...
Not every kiss is to romanticize...
Not every good sex is to date or  to discard... Or to fall in love... Or to blame...
Anyway ... who said that being an adult is easy?
This is FACT!

Arnaldo Jabor