Definitive

Definitive, as everything that is simple...
Our pain does not come from experienced things, but from the things that were dreamed and were not fulfilled.

Why suffering? Because automatically we forget what we have enjoyed and we suffer for our unfulfilled projections, such as each city that we wished to have been next to our love and we never did, for all the shows and books and silences that we would like to have shared, but not shared. For all the kisses canceled, for eternity.

We suffer not because our work is exhausting and paid little, but for all the free time that we no longer have to go to the movies, to chat with a friend, to swim, to date.

We suffer not because our mother is impatient with us, but for all the times when we could be confiding her our deepest anxieties if she were interested in understanding us.

We suffer not because our team lost, but by the smothered euphoria.

We suffer not because we are getting older, but because the future is being confiscated from us, thus preventing a thousand adventures to happen to us, all those with which we dreamed and we have never got to experience.

Why do we  suffer so much for love? The right would be we not suffer, just thank for having known a person so nice, which generated an intense feeling in us and that shared companionship for a reasonable time, a happy time.

How to ease the pain of what has not been  lived? The answer is as simple as a verse: Just eluding less and living more truly!

The more I live, the more I realize that the waste of life is in the love we don't share, in the strength that we do not use, in the selfish prudence that risks nothing, and that , dodging the suffering, we also lose happiness.

Pain is inevitable... But  Suffering is optional ...