Eternity

We have always been talking about love, friendship and passion ... 
How about talking about "WHAT IT IS NOT LOVE?" 

If you need someone just to make you happy, this is not love... 
It is LACK OF AFFECTION. 

If you have jealousy, insecurity and do anything to keep someone by your side, even knowing you are not loved, and you still say that you trust only this person, but not all the other people, that all seem to be rivals, this is not love... 
It is LACK OF SELF LOVE. 

If you believe that your life is empty without that person; that you can not imagine yourself alone and maintain a relationship which is already over just because you can't live your own life - you live in function of the other - this is not love...
It is DEPENDENCE. 

If you think your loved one is yours; that you are the owner of his life and his body; does not give him the right to express himself, to have choices, just to assert your dominance, this is not love... 
It is SELFISHNESS. 

If you do not feel desire; do not have a good sexual performance ; prefers not to have sex with this person, but feel some pleasure in being with him, this is not love... 
It is FRIENDSHIP. 

If you argue for any reason; are crazily jealous of each other and fight for anything; not always make the same plans; disagree in many situations; do not like doing the same things or go to the same places, but sexually paired perfectly, this is not love... 
It is DESIRE. 

If your heart beats faster; you perspire more intensily; your temperature rises and falls dramatically just to think about the other person, this is not love... 
It is PASSION. 

Now, knowing what is not love, it becomes easier to analyze, verify what is happening and seek to resolve the situation. 
Even if the situation is sometimes confused for you, the correct way is to "assess" the "Presence" and the "Absence" of your match in your life and on the outcome of your feelings you will realize if some of the above situations are temporary or definitively characterize the kind of relationship you have. 
Because the "coexistence" with your partner makes the time transform what is "TRUE LOVE INTO ETERNITY".