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Wednesday, October 29, 2014

Love is everywhere...



You are alone. You and all the fans of Flamengo Footbal Club. Don't be fooled, there are lots of people alone.
You are in front of the TV, and you devour two packages of Donuts while waiting for the phone to ring. 
Well... it could be today, it could be right now... a brand new love affair... 

Trimmm! It's your mother!... Who else could it be? Love makes no calls by telepathy. Love does not meet by appointment. It can come sooner than you expected and can find you unwilling to serious relationships. It may be right there by your side and you not even care. Or it may come too late and find you disillusioned, suspicious, full of dark circles in your thoughts... 
Then Love turns around and goes away. 
Why love never arrives on the right  time? 

Love appears when least expected and where you least imagine. You spend one whole party hypnotized by someone who neither sees you, and barely notices someone else who only has eyes for you!!! 
Today you feel devastated because you did not go to the beach this weekend. Your friends are there enjoying the sun and flerting with nice guys. You feel like  one ET in a big city. You seek refuge in a video store without foreseeing that even there, in the video store, you could find the person who would give meaning to your life... 
Love is like a nail scissors... It is never where we think it is... 

The only way is to direct the radar to the north, south, east and west. Your love can be in the aisle in a supermarket, can be impatient in line at a bank, choosing books in a bookstore, humming a song alone in his car stopped at a traffic light. Can be right here at the computer... but be careful!!! There are lots of "romance scammers" in internet too! 
Love is everywhere, you are not looking right. 

The first lesson is given: love is everywhere. 
Now the second: but is unpredictable. 
Do not expect to hear "I love you" at a dinner by candlelight, on Valentine's Day. Or receiving flowers after you make love for the first time with him. 
Love hates clichés... be careful again! Scammers "love clichés" not love you... 
You may suddenly hear "I love you" on a Tuesday, at four o'clock, after an argument, and the flowers will arrive on the day you get a driver's license, after approval of the beacon test.
You have just to understand and accept that:
Idealize is suffering.
And Love...Love is surprising... 















Martha Medeiros



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