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Sunday, October 19, 2014

The silence of the wolves...



Think of someone who is powerful ... 
This person fights and screams like a chicken, or looks and silences, like a wolf? 
Wolves do not scream... 
They have an aura of strength and power. 
Observe in silence... 
Only the powerful,  wolves, men or women, respond to a verbal attack with silence. 
Besides, who avoids saying anything he wishes will rarely regret for hurting someone with harsh and thoughtless words. 
Exactly that's why, the first and most obvious sign of power over himself is the silence at critical moments. 
If you are silent, just observing the problem, it shows you're thinking, and have no time for futile debates. 
If it is a discussion that has already left the ground of reason, who silences shows that has already won, even when the other side insists on shouting he is defeated. 
Watch... 
Smile... 
Silence... 
Go ahead... 
Remember that there are moments to speak and there are moments to silence. 
Choose which of these moments is the right one, even if you have to struggle for it. 
For some reason, probably cultural, we are trained to the false idea that we are obliged to answer all questions and respond to all attacks. 
Not true! 
You should answer only to whatever you want to answer and only reacts to whatever you want to. 
You are not even required to answer your personal phone. 
Speaking is a choice, not a requirement, even though it seems so. 
You can choose the silence... 
Also, you will not have to regret things you say on thoughtless moments.
"Xenocrates", more than three hundred years before Christ, defended his saying: 
"I regret things I say, but never my silence." 
Respond with silence when needed. 
Use smiles, not sarcastic smiles, but real ones. 
Use the look, use a hug or use anything else not to respond at times.
You will find that silence can be the most powerful among many responses, and at the right time, the most comprehensive and real of all of them...

Do you agree???




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